Hey "unreal hero", I don't think that is fair saying typical NZer's.... not accepting defeat.
It is human nature too blame other things/people. Everyone blames outside influences for their failures.
Psychology states that a person in a situation will usually blame other people, the circumstances and things out of their control.
Psychology also states that people observing someone in a situation will usually blame the person in the situation.
This makes perfect sense: we (AB fans) are blaming something else i.e the ref. Everyone else (non Ab fans) is blaming us - for choking or underperforming or whatever.
I'd also like to add that every team moans about the ref whenever decisions in a match don't go their way!
e.g Australia in the last tri nations match. They blamed the ref for the loss. He made some questionable calls which helped the ABs to win.
e.g South Africa after their game in Christchurch this year moaned and bitched about the ref. The captain stated - "if Richie Mccaw was in a green jumper with blonde hair or a yellow jumper with dreads he would never finish a test match".
e.g The Lions in 2005 made a HUGE deal of the taking out of BOD. They accused us of intentionally injuring him and blamed their whole series loss on the fact that we took him out.
Everyone does it!! Stop labeling us kiwi's for something that everyone does!! Are you telling me you have never been angry at a ref after a game.
People are so narrow minded in here.
I still remember when Australia got knocked out of the soccer world cup by Italy. They were complaining for months about that!! I have to admit they had reason to be angry but they over-cooked it.
Edit:
Firstly: The Welsh still blame the ref for a game in 1978 when one of our players took a dive in the lineout in the last minute. We got a penalty and ended up winning. HOWEVER the ref has maintained over the years that the penalty was unrelated to the diving player, this is easily seen if you watch the lineout (instead of just the player who dives). The Welsh still go on about his. So that is in response to "Which other country moans about a referee decision 30 years ago?". WALES DO!!
I can see how you are unhappy with the way we go on about the food poisoning. It has never actually been proven, Ian Jones states that it never happened but other players still argue that it did. We will never know what happened but at the end of the day SA were on fire that day and deserved to win.
It is only the minority who complain and make such a big deal. Trust me... most of my friends have stated that we choked and the ref had nothing to do with it. Just because a few people are blaming the ref on this website doesn't mean we all do. Read every single post, there are plenty of people congradulating the french (and they are kiwi's believe it or not).
I don't know much about the 1976 tour.... But it doesn't bother me.... whatever happened. Enlighten me....
I can see why you have led to some of your conclusions over us kiwi's but NOT ALL of us are like that. Don't pigeon hole the entire country by a few bitter morons. To tell you the truth the majority of people in this country do not care about rugby at all. The popularity of rugby and the claim that is a religion here is simply a myth.